What should I bring to a wedding?

When attending a wedding, it's essential to be mindful of the couple's preferences and the cultural context. Here's a general list of items you might want to bring or consider when attending a wedding:

1. Gift or Card:

Gift: If you are giving a gift, consider the couple's registry for ideas. Gifts can vary widely in price and type.

Card: A heartfelt card with a personal message is always appreciated.

2. Appropriate Attire:

Formal Attire: Unless the invitation specifies a different dress code, formal or semi-formal attire is usually appropriate. For men, this might mean a suit and tie; for women, a cocktail dress or a formal gown.

3. Personal Hygiene Items:

Tissues/Handkerchief: For personal use during emotional moments.

Breath Mints/Gum: To keep your breath fresh, especially if you’ll be socializing closely with others.

4. Money or Envelope (If Appropriate):

Cash: In some cultures, giving cash in an envelope is a common practice.

Check: A check made out to the couple is also acceptable in some regions.

5. Consider the Venue and Season:

Umbrella: If the wedding is during the rainy season.

Sunscreen: For outdoor weddings in sunny weather.

Sweater or Shawl: For indoor events in case the venue is chilly.

6. Electronic Devices:

Camera/Phone: For taking pictures (respect the couple's privacy and follow any rules about photography).

Phone Charger: Especially if you plan on using your phone for photos or social media updates.

7. Respectful Attitude:

Patience and Understanding: Weddings can sometimes have delays or changes in schedule. Be patient and understanding if things don’t go exactly as planned.

Respectful Behavior: Be polite, respectful, and mindful of cultural traditions and customs.

8. Optional Items:

Small Snacks: Especially if there might be a long gap between the ceremony and reception.

Comfortable Shoes: If there’s going to be dancing, comfortable shoes can be a lifesaver.

Always check the invitation or consult with the couple or the wedding organizer if you have specific questions about what to bring or how to prepare. Remember, your presence and good wishes are often the most important gifts you can give to the couple.